I know it’s hard to believe right now, but you’re closer to finding love than you think…
Do you feel like you’re never going to meet the right person, so why keep trying? Do you feel frustrated – even hopeless sometimes?
You’ve gone on dozens (or maybe even hundreds) of dates only to be disappointed again and again.
When you finally met someone you liked, you got your hopes up, but it didn’t go anywhere.
Or maybe you invested your time and energy in relationships that ultimately broke your heart…
Maybe you’re starting to think you should just stay single – after all, you’ve got a great job, awesome friends and a really good life. Shouldn’t that be enough?
Nooooo! Don’t give up!
Even though your life is full, it’s okay to want to more. You deserve to share your life with someone really special.
I’m so glad my friend Selene didn’t give up. She went on 72 Match.com dates. Her husband Pete was number 70! Now she’s happily married with three kids.
Fiona wrote me to share her story. She went on over 200 OK Cupid dates before meeting her husband.
I’m happy my friend Irene decided to go to a speed dating event a few years back. She met her fiancé there (the first speed dating event she went to was terrible, but she tried again).
And I’m glad I didn’t give up either.
After a failed marriage and two relationships that didn’t work out, I hung in there. In the years after my divorce, I dated and dated and dated. I met about 300 single men, and then I met my awesome husband, Rob.
What if I had stopped at number 299? I’m so glad I didn’t!
I kept putting myself out there. I dated online, went to singles events, tried speed dating and even chatted with strangers. I got off my couch and went out as often as I could.
And I didn’t use being too busy as an excuse. At 40, I had an infant and three school-age kids, yet I still made time to date.
Are you too busy? If something is truly a priority, you’ve got to set time aside to make it happen.
And don’t let your past experiences hold you back. You’re a strong person, and you’ve got this!
Try a new strategy – learn from past mistakes, read a helpful book or blog or get some professional help (I’m a dating coach, btw).
Be tenacious and don’t EVER give up!
This picture says it all!
You’re closer to LOVE than you think!
As a dating coach who’s helped hundreds of singles find love, I can tell you the recipe for success:
- Learn from past
- Know, accept and love yourself (know your value)
- Keep your heart open
- Have strong boundaries
- Implement a smart dating strategy
- Make a consistent effort
- Have fun
- And have faith
Stay determined. Go out into the world as your authentic, kind, open hearted and warm self. Have fun meeting interesting people along the way, all the while knowing you WILL meet “the one” when the time is right.
Keep at it!
Wishing you so much love,
Michelle
